Girls falling in love with their rapists thread

[Leucosticte]

https://www.quora.com/Have-you-ever-lost-any-respect-for-someone-instantly/answer/Ziyanda-Venter

As time went on, I contacted my rapist for some weird reason, “Why are you calling him, Zee?”, my roommate would ask me out of concern but the stupid me contacted him anyways. I remember the day he came to apologize to me, he was so sorry. My heart raced and I don't know why, it dawned on me that, I was falling for him!

We later hung out together and had sexual encounters. At times I'd remember the night he had hurt me. I got over it and later got addicted to the thrill of being with him. We had such a strong connection. I forgot all about the time he dragged me across his unmade bed, penetrating me with his fingers violently, his wild, brown eyes looking into mine and him pinning me on his bed while I felt his warm breath on my neck as I begged him not to touch me. I felt numb that night, my tears ran across my face, but I did what I did best ever since I were a a little child, I cried myself to sleep. The thrill of sleeping with him made me feel better about myself. I felt loved. It felt so wrong but I enjoyed the thrill.

I'm now two months pregnant with his baby. I came clean to my fiance and he has now forgiven me and wants to raise the child with me.

I decided to keep the baby because I don't believe in “mistakes”, the baby never hurt anyone, the baby doesn't deserve to be aborted because of my irresponsibility and human race's evil. I mean, when I see him or her, I will think of the man that hurt me but I know that the baby has purpose in this life.

It hurts me so much how I allowed the same guy that hurt me and broke me even more to have my body. To see that part of me. I didn't only strip naked for him but also my soul.

Someone replied, "Ziyanda, you are actually experiencing something other rape survivors do too. It's not stupid - it's a reaction to trauma. By having consensual sexual encounters with your rapist, you are creating a reality where you are no longer a victim."

The other thing is, they can orgasm during rape and then their body presumably releases oxytocin which promotes bonding.

Meanwhile other guys are thinking about their love interest, "How do I get this girl to fall in love with me"

 

[adolf512]

Unfortunatily you put yourself in legal danger by being sexually agressive.

Well i guess you could just deny it if she would bother to actually contact the police, most females probably dont even care about these things anyway.

But this is assuming you get the opportunity to meet a girl alone in the first place, a lot of them will not let you do that and raping a stranger really isn't a good idea.

 

[Leucosticte]

Unfortunatily you put yourself in legal danger by being sexually agressive.

Well i guess you could just deny it if she would bother to actually contact the police, most females probably dont even care about these things anyway.

But this is assuming you get the opportunity to meet a girl alone in the first place, a lot of them will not let you do that and raping a stranger really isn't a good idea.

You put yourself in legal danger in 2019 just by existing on the same planet as females. Wifing them up, though, is probably more legally dangerous than raping them.

 

[adolf512]

Kavenaugh was accussed of groping despite never engaging in any sexual avtivities until long after the alleged incident took place.

I think many females get aroused by putting themselves in situation where they might get groped or raped, i have seen more than one female write on whisper that she wants to be groped in public. Females probably enjoy sex far more than males but it has to be good, they dont want some simp that will not fuck her properly.

Feminist tend to cherrypick to find examples where females seem to have it worse such as unwanted sexual attention or full rape ignoring the fact that males often resort to rape becuase all females reject them.

 

[Leucosticte]

Kavenaugh was accussed of groping despite never engaging in any sexual avtivities until long after the alleged incident took place.

I think many females get aroused by putting themselves in situation where they might get groped or raped, i have seen more than one female write on whisper that she wants to be groped in public. Females probably enjoy sex far more than males but it has to be good, they dont want some simp that will not fuck her properly.

Feminist tend to cherrypick to find examples where females seem to have it worse such as unwanted sexual attention or full rape ignoring the fact that males often resort to rape becuase all females reject them.

Supposedly, a lot of rapists also get consensual sex, which doesn't surprise me because if chicks are giving them that validation, they probably feel more entitled to rape on those occasions where chicks do deny them, since they feel worthy of sex.

 

[adolf512]

There are a lot of grey areas when it comes to rape, she may say "no" or "stop" after initiating sex and enjoy the fact that he continue fucking her ignoring her request.

Most instances of what's legally rape is probably stuff females like and it's highly unlikely it will ever go to court. What actually happened between them doesn't really matter anyway since both have option to lie about what took place.

 

[Leucosticte]

There are a lot of grey areas when it comes to rape, she may say "no" or "stop" after initiating sex and enjoy the fact that he continue fucking her ignoring her request.

Most instances of what's legally rape is probably stuff females like and it's highly unlikely it will ever go to court. What actually happened between them doesn't really matter anyway since both have option to lie about what took place.

Exactly. I find, if you wife her up, you become that much more likely to get hit with a rape accusation, because she needs an excuse for leaving her husband, "he raped me" is a short and simple narrative that people aren't really allowed to question without seeming like they're misogynistic, and the cops and prosecutors and, for that matter, the general public are eager to fuck over any guy they think regards himself as having some sexual privilege over his wife just because of the marital tie.

These days, I don't hear any men saying that they disagree with marital rape laws, because that's just not politically correct to say anymore. They won't even express that sentiment on manosphere forums, because they think it's "bad optics" or whatever, given how people already accuse them of being pro-rape and whatnot. Occasionally, a chick will say, "I don't believe in marital rape laws" but she would probably accuse her husband of rape if she decided to divorce him and needed to gain leverage.

 

[adolf512]

at this point marriage is glorified findom anyway, males getting divorce rape deserve it.

I do not think you being reduced to property of a male would be worse than being jailed, would depend on the circumstances but overall having a male that controls you is probably better since he would be incentivized to take care of you and hopefully the sex would be interesting.

You should still protect females from being raped since in most cases you do not want said male to make her pregnant, other males are your biolotical enemies and thus it makes sense to put them in jail given the opportunity.

even patriarchal societies do not allow you to just rape someone, in many cases you first need to marry her.

 

[Leucosticte]

at this point marriage is glorified findom anyway, males getting divorce rape deserve it.

I do not think you being reduced to property of a male would be worse than being jailed, would depend on the circumstances but overall having a male that controls you is probably better since he would be incentivized to take care of you and hopefully the sex would be interesting.

You should still protect females from being raped since in most cases you do not want said male to make her pregnant, other males are your biolotical enemies and thus it makes sense to put them in jail given the opportunity.

even patriarchal societies do not allow you to just rape someone, in manh cases you first need to marry her.

Well, you could rape her and then marry her. That used to happen sometimes, and probably still does happen. https://www.sbs.com.au/language/english/i-married-my-rapist

Lately, though, India has been slowly becoming less based, from what I hear.

 

[Admin]

The case you linked to seem to be stochholm syndrome in action. When you abuse someone said individual may respond by telling herself/himself you are a good guy and continuing to be abused.

Allowing rapist to get away with marrying her after does not really make sense in modern times when in many cases the women have more resources and do not want to get married in the first place.