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"Okay, so do you think it's a good idea that basically everyone who marries a chick, is going to be marrying a chick who's given previous guys blowjobs, and/or sex?"
Because most chicks have done that stuff by age 18. Maybe this issue is irrelevant to the person you're talking to because they already wifed up a chick 50 years ago, or they're female and therefore don't care about their spouse's sexual history, or whatever, but you can still ask, "Do you want your son to have to marry a chick who's given previous guys blowjobs and/or sex?"
That's the reality if we say that girls can't get married till 18. This is why the best marriages are the ones where it's two high school sweethearts -- because maybe that's the rare case where the dude who married her was also the one who took her virginity, and maybe even was her first kiss and all that stuff.
That stuff does matter. And you can tell girls know it, because when you get with one who's post-carousel, she's gonna struggle as hard as she can to find stuff where she can say, "I've never done that with any other dude" as a way of making you feel special.
It almost gets kinda comical, because you can infer, "Okay, when we did x, y, and z, she said that was a first for her, so that means when we did a, b, and c, that was stuff she'd done with previous guys, because she didn't say that was a first." But you can tell her heart is in the right place, because she's really trying to make you feel like there are still some ways in which she's giving you something she didn't give others.
Because most chicks have done that stuff by age 18. Maybe this issue is irrelevant to the person you're talking to because they already wifed up a chick 50 years ago, or they're female and therefore don't care about their spouse's sexual history, or whatever, but you can still ask, "Do you want your son to have to marry a chick who's given previous guys blowjobs and/or sex?"
That's the reality if we say that girls can't get married till 18. This is why the best marriages are the ones where it's two high school sweethearts -- because maybe that's the rare case where the dude who married her was also the one who took her virginity, and maybe even was her first kiss and all that stuff.
That stuff does matter. And you can tell girls know it, because when you get with one who's post-carousel, she's gonna struggle as hard as she can to find stuff where she can say, "I've never done that with any other dude" as a way of making you feel special.
It almost gets kinda comical, because you can infer, "Okay, when we did x, y, and z, she said that was a first for her, so that means when we did a, b, and c, that was stuff she'd done with previous guys, because she didn't say that was a first." But you can tell her heart is in the right place, because she's really trying to make you feel like there are still some ways in which she's giving you something she didn't give others.
