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Politics is always going to involve something kinda like warfare; e.g. if you're on the street gathering signatures to get someone on the ballot, you're going to experience some of the same discomfort as a soldier in the trenches, maybe even some of the same fear (since it's fearful to walk up to members of the public and ask for sigs; some of them are gonna regard you as the enemy and treat you accordingly).
In relationships these days, you're not allowed to just smack a bitch, so you have to resort to some other strategy to try to control them. Some power struggles just involve the filibuster. A lot of these conversations between couples aren't even about trying to reason with each other that much; it's more like, "I want x" vs. "I want y" and then making an appeal to some plausible-sounding principle about what's responsible or caring or loving or whatever. But you never really get anywhere because you can use principles like that to basically justify anything. So then it's about who gives up and says, "Fuck it, I don't want to argue about this anymore; you win." It's just a test of endurance, and it drags on, rather than getting dealt with summarily with a satisfying physical fight that maybe ends with taking the physicality to the bedroom with lovemaking.
If the two people are intelligent, that doesn't necessarily mean they're gonna make any more progress in their debates toward a mutually acceptable solution; it just means they have more intellectual ammunition at their disposal for their filibuster.
In relationships these days, you're not allowed to just smack a bitch, so you have to resort to some other strategy to try to control them. Some power struggles just involve the filibuster. A lot of these conversations between couples aren't even about trying to reason with each other that much; it's more like, "I want x" vs. "I want y" and then making an appeal to some plausible-sounding principle about what's responsible or caring or loving or whatever. But you never really get anywhere because you can use principles like that to basically justify anything. So then it's about who gives up and says, "Fuck it, I don't want to argue about this anymore; you win." It's just a test of endurance, and it drags on, rather than getting dealt with summarily with a satisfying physical fight that maybe ends with taking the physicality to the bedroom with lovemaking.
If the two people are intelligent, that doesn't necessarily mean they're gonna make any more progress in their debates toward a mutually acceptable solution; it just means they have more intellectual ammunition at their disposal for their filibuster.